The DOM Life Podcast
Episode 40: D/s-Deeper Dive with MiLady Kay
Podcast Summary:
Master Nick & Lady Dee interview MiLady Kay. She provides a different perspective on Dominance and submission as she is a switch which means she can switch between both roles depending upon the situation. She discusses and explains a little about her poly relationship and poly relationships in general.
Favorite Part of the Episode:
Master Nick – Hearing MiLady Kay talking about two of her most memorable experiences and both are with us.
Lady Dee – Master Nick said “fuck that, I’m out” when talking about having multiple females in a relationship.
What we want you to take away from this episode:
Master Nick – MiLady Kay has a number of years in the Lifestyle and I feel honored that she had her first real session with the electric wand with me and because of this session she has a love for it. If someone had used this tool in the wrong way, her feelings may be different. I’m glad I got to share my love of the electric wand with her.
Lady Dee – You do not have to choose if you are Dominant or submissive, sometimes you are a combination of both depending on your situation and experiences. As MiLady Kay explained she is both a Dominant and submissive and I love hearing about her history since her style is very different than Master Nick’s.
Something to be taken back or something we need to expand upon from this episode:
Master Nick – The poly relationship, it is really similar to a Dominant submissive relationship, there isn’t a cookie cutter plan to go by each partner involved has their input and must create their own dynamic.
Lady Dee – Don’t ever stop exploring your kink, as MiLady Kay proves just because you are a submissive now doesn’t mean you can never explore other aspects of BDSM. You will never know what other things YOU like unless you try it.
Episode 39: Real Talk, How to be a Good Dominant
Podcast Summary:
In tonight's episode, Lady Dee is feeling a little under the weather with a sinus infection. Master Nick decides it would be a great opportunity to discuss what it takes to be a good Dom. While researching and taking notes, Master Nick realizes it is time to take a step back and do some self-reflection so he can become even better. Although his list is not very long, yet, he discusses what he feels are very important traits any Dominant should have.
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https://open.spotify.com/episode/0qa5InSlt6AMCGZHZuoBea?si=zdqTdCe-Q_KxOrKfKf11IQ
Episode 38: Demos at Swingers Society December Takeover
Podcast Summary:
Master Nick & Lady Dee discuss the demonstrations they did in collaboration with Sir Dante and Zorra from Ex Libris at Club Tempted for the Swinger Society takeover. We discuss the Temperature Play demonstration which was amazing with a constant stream of volunteers who wanted to feel the hot/cold implements. Then we talk about our performance on the dance floor which was heavy impact using lighted and UV reactive implements.
Favorite Part of the Event:
Master Nick – It was easy and smooth collaborating with Club Tempted, Swinger Society, and DJ Life of Spice. They were all extremely accommodating to make our demonstrations with Ex Libris as great as they were.
Lady Dee – Enjoying the heavy impact with custom music made by DJ Life of Spice.
What we took away from the event:
Master Nick – Hearing all the positive feedback saying how much they enjoyed the hot and cold sensations.
Lady Dee – Learning more about temperature play while doing it for others and making them feel good.
One final shout out to someone or about something from the event:
Master Nick – I will say it again, the staff at Club Tempted do not get the recognition they deserve. Each and every staff member goes about and beyond the club’s expectations.
Lady Dee – I want to shout out to all the event attendees who came and watched or participated in our demonstrations and performance – thank you so much!!! Without you all wanting to learn, this weekend would have been a bust.
Episode 37: Real Talk, Scene Creation - Part 3
Podcast Summary:
In this episode, Master Nick walks us through a date night in a vanilla venue where you still participate in BDSM power exchange. While it may not be a traditional date night, his ideas are eye opening. Join us in a discussion of edging, orgasm control and sexy dancing. This is part of our Back-to-Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outside.
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https://open.spotify.com/episode/5CsQs5NmtDyikvmLiqaoZW?si=uMY9s3aNRcCnxXjyc5EoEA
Episode 36: Temperature Play
Podcast Summary:
Master Nick & Lady Dee dip their feet into Temperature Play. With the upcoming demonstration at the Swinger’s Society Club Takeover at Club Tempted, we thought it was a great opportunity to discuss Temperature play which is a form of BDSM, sensual play that involves using a variety of items and substances that are hot and or cold upon and within the body to help stimulate the senses.
Favorite Part of the Episode:
Master Nick – Learning that ginger can be a great form of punishment.
Lady Dee – During the episode, we touched upon the eating off my body at my birthday – that allowed me to revisit that wonderful experience!
What we want you to take away from this episode:
Master Nick – There are so many objects that can be used for temperature play, use your imagination and get creative. Then be sure to tell us all about it.
Lady Dee – BDSM is not just about pain, most of temperature play is about sensations and not pain. If you have been thinking of incorporating BDSM into your life and relationship, temperature play is a good way to start.
Something to be taken back or something we need to expand upon from this episode:
Master Nick – If you are researching fire play, you will see that I indicated the wrong isopropyl level for the rubbing alcohol at 99 percent, but you need to use 70%.
Lady Dee – After researching there are two recommended techniques: 1) Fire Wands where fire wands are soaked in the fuel and it is lit and rubbed across the body; and 2) Fire Fleshing which uses two wands where one is lit and one is not. The one that is not lit is used to draw patterns across body and then light it using the second wand.
Episode 35: Real Talk, Scene Creation - Part 2
Podcast Summary:
In this episode, we invite you into the world of punishments. We discuss a scene on the cross where all the tender, sensual play is gone and it is the stark reality of being in trouble. Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss multiple scenarios and how it may play out. This episode is part of our Back to Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outside.
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https://open.spotify.com/episode/3LauBk0yTEdXQc42enXJpJ?si=3RLRJAIoTiaQMNZgzbvDeA
Episode 34: Interview with Snapped Ginger Part 2
Podcast Summary:
This episode continues the interview with Snapped Ginger, she steps into the next level deeper of rope (no longer 101). She provides several safety concerns, things to watch when creating harnesses and the ways in which suspension will change how you tie yourself and others. The details she provides is part of her gravity boot camp and contain all the things to research prior to moving forward with your rope journey. Interested in attending her classes or seminars, follow the links below.
Fetlife: SnappedGinger
https://fetlife.com/users/8057561
Instagram: SnappedGinger09
https://www.instagram.com/snappedginger09?igsh=MXZvNGRjendza2RyYQ==
Humanitix (for tickets to A Frayed Knox rope events in Louisville): SnappedGingerLLC https://events.humanitix.com/host/snappedgingerllc
Favorite Part of the Episode:
Master Nick – Favorite part is finally figuring out DOM Depot mentioned in rope boot camp 101 is actually The Home Depot.
Lady Dee – Snapped Ginger says, “Sometimes you need to learn the rules so you can color outside the lines.” I believe that explains much of what you learn and do in BDSM. We don’t do it until we do!!!
What we want you to take away from this episode:
Master Nick – Snapped Ginger is very experienced and has a great personality for teaching. Be sure to reach out to her to start your rope adventure.
Lady Dee – Master Nick takes a ribbing with a good attitude. There is no store called DOM Depot that sells rope. LOL
Something to be taken back or something we need to expand upon from this episode:
Master Nick – This episode is crammed full of knowledge, safety, and terms related to rope. Even as someone who has dabbled, listening to this episode was intimidating but once you start down the right path and become hands on it will come together and make sense.
Lady Dee – We are thrilled that an experienced rigger indicated that our first episode on rope covered the safety of rope thoroughly. Master Nick and I do a ton of research prior to airing episodes and we love that bit of affirmation.
Episode 33: Real Talk, Scene Creation - Part 1
Podcast Summary:
Join us in a one-on-one discussion where Master Nick thrills Lady Dee drawing a picture of BDSM scene on the St. Andrews Cross. This episode is part of our Back-to-Basics mini-series discussing bite size topics done after its dark outside.
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https://open.spotify.com/episode/6U9o42QzJHwW5Zla4uz07O?si=T01gqMTXTneK4W4_VR0-MA
Episode 32: Interview with Snapped Ginger Part 1
Podcast Summary:
Master Nick and Lady Dee interview Snapped Ginger an experienced rigger. She explains her path to becoming a rigger and gives details about her kinky side. Then she dives deeper into the history of rope and discusses the difference between eastern and western style. Interested in attending her classes or seminars, follow the links below.
Fetlife: SnappedGinger
https://fetlife.com/users/8057561
Instagram: SnappedGinger09
https://www.instagram.com/snappedginger09?igsh=MXZvNGRjendza2RyYQ==
Humanitix (for tickets to A Frayed Knox rope events in Louisville): SnappedGingerLLC https://events.humanitix.com/host/snappedgingerllc
Favorite Part of the Episode:
Master Nick – When I asked her if she was ever a brat to herself and she responds that she does things when self-tying to cause pain and giggles when she is doing the sadistic thing to herself.
Lady Dee – When Snapped Giner tells the story of how she got into rope. She said “No thank you!” to her dominant And realized that was not how power exchanges work and so she learned how to top.
What we want you to take away from this episode:
Master Nick – There is many opportunities to explore your individual kinks within the great community of kink, find that niche then attend events, find online forums, and speak to those that have similar interests.
Lady Dee – There are a number of ways for you to begin with rope. Group classes, private lessons, videos online if you are interested just do it.
Something to be taken back or something we need to expand upon from this episode:
Master Nick – Snapped Ginger talked about the term Hojojutsu. This is the traditional Japanese martial art of restraining a person using cord or rope in, as a precursor to modern day handcuffs.
Lady Dee – Snapped Ginger uses the term Gote when discussing Shibari. This is the most basic and common pattern of Japanese style rope bondage in which the person has their hands and arms bound in a box-like position typically (but not always) behind their back.
Episode 31: Introducing Real Talk BDSM Back to Basics
Podcast Summary:
This episode is to introduce The DOM Life’s new mini-series - Real Talk BDSM Back to Basics. Watch for these episodes to drop mid-week in addition to our normal Sunday episodes. Master Nick and Lady Dee are using these episodes to discuss BDSM in smaller bite size portions. This episode lays out the general format along with a few of the upcoming topics that will be discussed. As mentioned within the podcast, this will be the first episode that will be available to watch as well as listen.
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