The DOM Life Podcast

This episode is our introduction to rope bondage which is also known widely as rope play.  We walk through safety, risks, things to think of before, and during rope play.  We also discuss why we want to do it personally and some of the way to start down the path to becoming a rigger.   

Master Nick – Talking about the coconut rope. 

Lady Dee – All of it, discussing rope makes me happy – now I just need to learn – learn -learn.

Master Nick – The serious risks that are involved those should not be taken lightly. 

Lady Dee – We are beginners to rope and understand that there is a natural risk associated with bondage and safety is our top priority as we explore this new skill. 

Master Nick – Stay tuned for future episodes expanding on rope play. 

Lady Dee – We are interested in exploring KINK in all it’s glory, if you have a topic or a category you would like to learn about message us and we will do some investigating for a future episode. 

This episode we discuss the Demonstrations that we were contracted to do at the Swinger’s Society Club Takeover of Club Tempted.  These were our planned events from start to finish…  except Lady Dee was unable to finish.  You will just have to listen to Master Nick do all the explaining.  

Master Nick – Meeting so many new people and talking about BDSM. 

Lady Dee – I wasn’t there but the decorations were off the chain – I know because I bought them and saw the picture of the results. 

Master Nick – People love the electric wand way more than I anticipated so next event I need to step up my game. 

Lady Dee – Do not do a kids party a week before an scheduled event, those little monsters are a germ fest.  LOL 

Master Nick – It is a lot more fun when Lady Dee is with me. 

Lady Dee – I knew Master Nick could handle the event without me.  He is always the best at what he puts his mind to, but I’m so happy we have friends that step up when we need them too.   

After attending Kinktasia, the first convention by LiNK, we wanted to voice our thoughts and opinions of the event including the class we attended, the performances, the booths, games and vendors.    

Master Nick – Speaking with the owner of Too Hot To Handle Candles as he shared his knowledge, experiences, and stories.  I said in the episode I wanted to take him home because it would give me more time with him to sit and talk and learn. 

Lady Dee – I found myself drawn to rope in a very unexpected way.  When asked at the beginning why I was there and what I hoped to learn from the rope bootcamp, I responded I wanted to be tied up.  I’ve since figured out, I want to do the tying up.   

Master Nick – I feel that I took away a broader look into the kinks within the BDSM community and I want to learn more about that diversity.  Hopefully, at the next Kinktasia event we will be allowed to set up a booth and do one to two question interviews of others about their kink, their lives, and desires.  

Lady Dee – That I want to talk to the individuals at the event and learn so much more about who they are and what they do and share my own brand of sensory by using all the other vendor products on them. 

Master Nick – Shout out to Shannon aka Sparkle Moon Beam of LiNK who has restored my faith in conventions and I’m now ready to attend more. 

Lady Dee – Shout out to Snapped Ginger, who was freaking HOT, Sexy, Amazing, Erotic during her performance on stage.  The rope tying, poses, and overall setting showed me my goals.  

In advance of our upcoming demo for Swinger Society takeover at Club Tempted, we are recording an episode exploring the wonderful world of Sensual/Sensory Play.  This area of BDSM is something Lady Dee has really taken a liking too.  We barely scratch the surface but hope you enjoy the introductions into sensation play. 

Master Nick – Talking about my next adventure – fire play. 

Lady Dee – I got to keep the larger float room because my Master loves me and understood my concern about the smaller space and that HE got to experience the clamshell.

Master Nick – Sensory play and sensory deprivation is a huge category and cannot be covered in one episode, therefore expect many more episodes on this area of BDSM.  Stay tuned for a deep dive into it. 

Lady Dee – Sensations are heightened when other senses are removed.  It is an experience you don’t want to miss if you trust and communicate with the person in your life. 

Master Nick –  I wasn’t bored while laying in the float room, I just can’t sit still and I need something to occupy myself with. 

Lady Dee –  We really hope that you come to our demonstration on 8/23 to see sensory play and sensory deprivation live.  Come participate to see what kind of chills and thrills you can feel or help others to feel. 

This is a mini episode to get the listeners opinion on which dungeon play was the best.  Master Nick believes Episode 9 where he and Sir Dante dominate Lady Dee and Zorra is the best, while Lady Dee cannot believe he doesn’t think Episode 13 is the best where she and Mandi tag teamed Chris.  

Master Nick Episode 9 – The way Dante and I fed off each other and the banter back and forth between Lady Dee and Zorra. 

Lady Dee Episode 13 – The sounds of a male, Chris, who is both enjoying and feeling the pain in the BDSM scene.  It’s hot.   

Master Nick Episode 9 – Hearing the giggles, the squeaks, my nipples and the god bless it’s during the episode.  

Lady Dee Episode 13 – The way that Mandi and I can tag team Chris to the point where he calls out fuck me running yellow.  

Mater Nick Episode 9 –  The sympathetic pain Lady Dee was feeling for Zorra . 

Lady Dee Episode 13 – The fact that I asked if I could hit him with the new hand paddle.  

Master Nick Episode 9 – The fact that Sir Dante and I used almost exactly the same implements, but each of our styles are different and that is true across all Dominants.  Side note – moisture will ruin laminate flooring.    

 Lady Dee Episode 13 – That double the wartenburg wheels doesn’t necessarily mean double the fun for the submissive.  

Master Nick Episode 9 – Two Dominants, two submissives and a whole lot of toys.  

Lady Dee Episode 13 –  Having a man strung up on the cross enjoying two woman tag teaming him with implements makes this episode the best.  

Special call out for a new word by Zorra – Hurtier in Episode 9 

Special call out for a new color by Lady Dee – Green and a half in Episode 13 

A dungeon play date with Chris on the cross where Mandi and Lady Dee get to tag team him with a variety of implements. This episode was so much fun for Lady Dee and Mandi with Master Nick sidelined for the entire play time.  

Master Nick –  I loved being able to sit back, watch and commentate on the episode. 

Lady Dee – Mandi saying that you can tell who is a true sub deep down (Lady Dee) when they ask another submissive if it is okay to hit them with an implement.  Yep, I did that!!! 

Master Nick –  Even in the middle of a scene you can make up a new color.  

Lady Dee – When you aren’t quite yellow you can be green and a half.  OMG 

Master Nick – See pics below to see what implements were used on Chris. 

Lady Dee – Nothing, I did AMAZING!  Hahaha! 

After the cliffhanger we return to let you know what Lady Dee found in Chris’s pants.  We discuss their dynamic and how Mandi, a small woman, dominates Chris who is a foot taller than her.  Much of their D/s dynamic is in her mental control of him even though she physically dominates him as well.  

Master Nick – Understanding more of what Chris went through to reach the point where he is okay in his mind with accepting he is submissive. 

Lady Dee – When I explain that Chris and I have a pattern and Mandi comes in and is like fuck your pattern and then Chris repeating “Fuck Yo Pattern” with a fun twist.

Master Nick – When a surgical stainless steel cock cage hits the table it makes a hellacious racket. 

Lady Dee – Communication is key and be open to what you are hearing from your partner.  Your sexual relationship may be different than traditional but that can be amazing!  Stay open to your partners’ wants and needs. 

Master Nick –  Dominating someone in the dungeon is a turn on for me when that person is getting turned on from the things I am doing to their body.  It may not be sexually gratifying but is stimulating when my dominance causes them to become excited.  

Lady Dee – I wish that I had another hour with Mandi and Chris to discuss more of their experiences.  They will be back! 

Mandi is the dominant and Chris is her submissive.  We discuss their D/s relationship and how their Dom/sub roles are sexual and although he is submissive sexually in their life he is the head of the household. Lady Dee feels very special that Mandi allows her to top Chris while at the club and we leave you all on a cliff hanger about what Lady Dee felt in Chris’s pants. 

Master Nick –  Discussing the not so common male submissive.  I feel there are a lot more males that want to be dominated but they may be afraid to open up about the desire.  

Lady Dee –  That for their BDSM play he calls her Goddess, because he worships her, and she calls him hubby-slave. 

Master Nick – Life is a battle when trying to find the right partner, but knowing what you want out of life makes it easier to find the right one for you.  

Lady Dee – There are many ways to communicate your needs to your partner.  Mandi and Chris use clips of porn to explore and exchange ideas for their relationship. 

Master Nick –  CBT – Cock & Ball Torture.

It is a BDSM activity involving the stimulation, manipulation, or inflicting of pain on the male genitals. 

An introduction to the website www.theDOMlife.com and how and why it was created.  An explanation of our adult games available for purchase, the availability of our dungeon, implement rental and training as well as merchandise.  We also discuss where we have been as well as where to find what events are upcoming for us.  

Master Nick – Talking about Sir Dante taking TWO swings from a paddle by Chris. 

Lady Dee – Telling everyone about Master Nick singing happy Birthday to Sir Dante NAKED and that Sir Dante took TWO swings from a paddle by Chris.  

Master Nick – We offer a variety of fun filled activities, cool merchandize, as well as training and education on BDSM. 

Lady Dee – That we have custom games available to make your events AMAZING! 

Master Nick – I would change the fact that I didn’t sensor Lady Dee explaining the BINGO task with me standing in front of Sir Dante singing happy birthday to him while I was naked.   

Lady Dee – I do love doing the podcast, I am just not as technically savvy as Master Nick.  We split the responsibilities and I need him to make all of it happen which is why I would not have taken this path alone.  He is the driving force behind us.