The DOM Life Podcast

The interview with Jon and Tonya was informative with Part 1 focused on Jon and Tonya and their kinky selves but in this episode we get to hear more about Club Tempted. We delve deeper into Club Tempted beginnings, development, and expansions and find out ways in which the Managers keep it fresh.  

Master Nick – The fact that Tonya lied in school about what she wanted to be when she grew up. 

Lady Dee – Master Nick saying “da fuck” when hearing about Tonya’s early experience.  It shows how much he likes sex, wet sex, wet sexy squirting sex, very wet sexy squirting sex! Yay, me!!!! 

Master Nick – Tonya said it best, when she said all walks of life are at Club Tempted, you don’t have to be the Ken and Barbie of the world to fit in as long as you are dressed to Tempted standards. 

Lady Dee – 40% of the members at Club Tempted are into or exploring BDSM.  Why don’t you join us at the club? 

Master Nick – Dungeon Master – We didn’t give a great definition for dungeon master because every dungeon is different.  Although, they share the same concept each one has it’s own unique rules and boundaries that the Dungeon Master’s enforce. 

Lady Dee – As Jon and Tonya said, make friends with your partner – this allows you to give yourself a hall pass because it is easier to talk to your partner in a no judgement zone. Find a way to communicate that works best for you and your partner because it is necessary to navigate ups and downs in the lifestyle. 

After Master Nick requests assistance from Shannon and her company Love Leather and Lace to create some UV reactive and light up implements, we continued the discussion on LNK – Louisville Network of Kink and what will be coming up in the near term as well as getting some insight into Kinktasia 2025. 

Master Nick – Fussing at Shannon because she didn’t read my email, but talking in person was a better option in the end. 

Lady Dee – The moment where I explain to Shannon that I really and truly enjoy talking and listening to her.  She is a very inspirational person who lives in reality and tries making a difference. 

Master Nick – I may be repeating my take away from last episode but - It is amazing to have someone with a big heart to build a community for people to enjoy. 

Lady Dee – We want to be a vendor at Kinktasia, Intrigue, and all the kink events.  Hopefully get others on the podcast and learn all about their kinks broadening our experiences and knowledge.  

Master Nick – Stay curious, just to reiterate what Shannon said with regards to what she would want to impart to our listeners – STAY CURIOUS.  

Lady Dee – Shannon explained that immortality is making a difference for one person, teaching one person one thing. I teach you a skill and you use that skill, then you teach someone else the skill over and over again and every time someone uses that skill there’s a little piece of me there. 

If you have not heard of Shannon, Sparklemoonbeam, then you are probably not actively involved in the Louisville kink community.  After Kinktasia, Ep. 16, where we formally met, we asked that she come onto our podcast and her interview does not disappoint.  Join us as we learn more about Shannon personally, her ventures and about LiNK, Inc. also known as LNK – Louisville Network of Kink and all that it has to offer.   

Master Nick – Hearing how she picked her specialty in the Navy. 

Lady Dee – When Shannon’s is asked what is your kink?  Her response, “Yes.”

Master Nick – The compassion and heart felt ideas that she has towards building the community for all kinksters making sure it is all inclusive. LNK is very fortunate that she is so passionate about the mission. 

Lady Dee – I had a real personal and emotional moment during this interview that I had planned to remove because it involved my son, but after listening to it again and hearing the vital key information that was discussed, I decided to leave it in. Hopefully, it resonates with you like it did me.   

Master Nick – Shannon said her kink is giving others tools in order for them to find their true selves.  In the short time I had with her during this interview I felt this deeply.  If you are having an identity crisis or are afraid to explore your kink you should attend LNK events and meet with Shannon.  Spending time talking with her felt very therapeutic and I believe she could help so many people who are trying to find themselves, their kink and their community. 

Lady Dee – Shannon has a gift that I feel she is giving to this world that includes bringing together individuals to give them a stronger voice to be heard, a better place to be safe while helping to make the world more accepting so they don’t need a safe space anymore. 

After another episode left hanging for an answer, we continue with the interview of Loki & Christina on their D/s relationship.  As one of the newer Dominants, it has been interesting getting to know his style and thoughts.  We hope this episode inspires you if you are new but nervous to start in BDSM.  

Master Nick – Hearing inexpensive finds at Academy and Hobby Lobby – it isn’t necessary to go out and spend $100’s of dollar to get into BDSM. 

Lady Dee – When Master Nick calls Loki, “Daddy.”  We have wonderful relationships with our friends. 

Master Nick – Not only have you heard it from me, but you have heard it from Loki in this episode, research is key to the safety of you and your partner.  Finding like-minded people to discuss is one way, but multiple internet searches and online interactions will also help you to learn safety tips.  

Lady Dee –  I want you to listen to Master Nick say he is a kind hearted Dom and take that to mean that he is a “safe” person to experience the dungeon and dungeon play with for inexperienced individuals.  Come to us and we will gladly show you the violet wand, floggers, paddles and all the goodies in the Dom Box but in a safe and consensual manner. 

Master Nick – If you are interested in any kind of kink or fetish you should seriously check out Club Tempted because of the amazing staff and welcoming members.  Don’t look at it as a swingers club, it is a LIFESTLYE club where you can do what you choose to do due to the no pressure atmosphere. 

Lady Dee – This episode was recorded many weeks ago, prior to Kinktasia, but due to timing we can drop our episodes 4-8 weeks after recording and may mention activities and events that will be coming up that may have already occurred when the episode drops.  I am sorry for any confusion that this may cause.    

In an effort to give you a number of perspectives on D/s Lifestyles we are doing a series of interviews of individuals involved in Dominant/submissive relationships.  This week is Club Tempted’s one and only Loki who is a relatively new Dominant in a relationship with Christina.      

Master Nick – Hearing their take on our podcast and knowing they can’t listen to an episode from beginning to end without pausing multiple times while discussing and comparing with their dynamic against what is being discussed. 

Lady Dee – “We’re here now!” is my favorite new saying. 

Master Nick – I’ve said it before and I’m sure I’ll say it again, “Not any two D/s relationships are the same. There may be similarities, but each relationship needs to nail down what works best for them.” 

Lady Dee – Sometimes the peaches and cream women are not what they seem.  Go Christina for being such a kinky ass lady!  

Master Nick – I want to expand upon (and explore) that me and Lady Dee are the only two who have been able to play with Christina in the dungeon. It’s time to expand upon that… 

Lady Dee – This podcast is for every level and every type of kink.  We want to give others something to consider, think about, and discuss all while talking about what we love!  While our focus is mainly on BDSM, we are learning about other kinks through this exploration.  Keep listening as we educate others and ourselves.