The DOM Life Podcast

Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss their attendance at the Indiana Leather and Kink weekend in Indianapolis.  Covering information on what Leather Clubs are, what classes and education they attended during the weekend, the vendors and products available at the event, as well as the dungeon play.  Lady Dee and Master Nick explain how the class on clothespins and clamps led to an eye-opening purchase and experience for Lady Dee. They were both so thankful for the opportunity to meet new and interesting people who are part of the Lifestyle.   

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Master Nick and Lady Dee had a very traumatic three weeks following an automobile wreck that injured Lady Dee with a variety of fractured bones (ribs, knee, pelvis, and vertebrae). Taking this opportunity, they recorded an episode on when outside forces impact your D/s Dynamic.  Lady Dee is back in her chair for The DOM Life podcast where she talks about what happened during the wreck as well as the aftermath including details about her injuries and recovery. Master Nick and Lady Dee provide insight on the loss of their dynamic and how everything changed full-stop but even that did not take away her being a submissive or him a Dominant. Those natural roles still impacted their interactions with each other and others. They discuss how communication has been the saving grace of their relationship and allowed them to be stronger during this difficult time and the small steps they have taken to get back into the D/s Dynamic.  

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Master Nick and Lady Dee take the final part of the interview with Sir Dancealot and Erratic Eros to a new level, digging deep into their kinky lives which include Shibari, open and poly relationships, performances, exhibitionism, voyeurism, birthday spankings, trust, sub-space, D/s relationships, outdoor kink and, of course, they circle back around to where it all began and where it will go for the upcoming 2025 Kinktasia scheduled cabaret performances. Join The DOM Life as laughter rings out about Pumpkin Spice, Eros performing for the ladies, and his cooking skills.   

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Master Nick is excited for this long-awaited episode where he and Lady Dee get to introduce Sir Dancealot, Dan, who performed at Kinktasia 2024. Lady Dee selected his burlesque performance as her favorite. In this episode of The Dom Life, Dan will fill you in on how and where to learn Burlesque dancing in the Louisville area.  He discusses that in his mind he is at the French Vanilla level of kink and acknowledges that voyeurism and exhibitionism are areas that appeal to him. While attending local Sloshes and Munches and even an LiNK Dungeon, he has found his community. Master Nick and Lady Dee are awed to hear all about his story of survival, wearing capes and how Burlesque has improved his health. And, the surprise they mention to the listeners… will wait for another week.  

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In this Episode Master Nick and Lady Dee receive an education on Spankos.  KentuckyGirl tells The DOM Life about some of the standard tools used as a Spanker to include hair brushes, spoons, belts, paddles, and don’t forget the ever-favorite - hands. She provides insight to the Spankos mentality and how it differs from BDSM. Lady Dee was surprised to hear that penetration was not necessary after a good spanking, in fact, it takes away from the experience for KentuckyGirl. While Master Nick decided that he can show a very sexy way to remove a belt. KentuckyGirl discusses the national events available for Spankos and begins detailing out what the events look like and some things that occur.  This is part one of a two-part episode.   

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As a result of the joke regarding Master Nick napping, he retaliates in this episode by leaving in Lady Dee’s moment of forgetfulness to show all listeners what it’s really like living with her. Still discussing Day 1 from the A Frayed Knot 3-day Self-Tying Summit, the final two classes with RedHoneyRopes and Dirt Queen were detailed out.  RedHoneyRopes instructed the class on a chest harness as well as the Futomomo leg tie. Dirt Queen then provided the fundamentals of lower body harnesses, by having participants tie single columns on all areas of the legs and then taught a booty basket.  Day 2 of the self-tying summit was impressive with every mat and every station having a suspension rig. Mika and Lilith were forced to take point on the discussion of the classes from the second day when Master Nick heralded in the crickets.  Snapped Ginger did an amazing job covering the basics of self-suspension safety, hardpoints, where to buy equipment, rating of equipment and tying an upline.  After attendees suspended backpacks and bags, Air then covered the next step of tips and tricks for self-suspension allowing the class to interact, ask question and get feed back before suspending. This was followed up by the class from RedHoneyRopes who ties an Agura in partial suspension - Lilith was impressed with the beauty and strength of this tie. Although they were unable to attend Dirt Queen’s class on Self-tie synthesis: transitions through levels, they did hear about the class and saw picture of Dirt Queen and Air’s suspension results from labbing it out. Sit back and enjoy this episode unedited with bloopers as they happened.     

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This episode of The Dom Life is almost a Lady Dee take over with Mika & Lilith as guests, while Master Nick is caught sleeping on the job. Lilith & Mika are queer platonic partners, who live life strongly in the kink and BDSM world. Lilith & Mika are both submissives, but Lilith is exploring her switch side. Lilith, a sadomasochist, can take a ton of pain and says she feels giddy at others pain; while Mika identifies as a little and a good girl with an affinity for rope.  They attended the AFK Self-tying summit and will help give a run down after this meet and greet episode. Don’t miss the many sounds of giggles from the submissives this episode. 

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Do you ever wonder what Dom’s discuss when they get together? It’s usually a wide range of topics with the hopes of expanding personal knowledge and understand different perspectives. A good Dom should always ask questions, gathering as much information as possible. Today, Master Nick and Sir Dante kick of the first episode of Dom Discussions. The discussion covers what makes a good Dom, what does a good Dom do in a BDSM scene which includes the prep, the buildup and immersing yourself in the mind of a submissive. Once it begins you must be prepared to make sure it flows well without interruption or distractions. Dante does spill the beans on his all-time favorite scene with Zorra as well as a potential punishment that she would hate!  Right when Master Nick and Sir Dante get into how to live a 24/7 D/s Relationship it’s time to end the episode.   

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In Part 2, Lady Dee and Zorra spend a hot minute during The DOM Life podcast getting into their past BDSM relationships and the differences between each. They discuss how being in a 24/7 dynamic while in a relationship versus a purely D/S dynamic sometimes impacts the actual power exchange. Lady Dee opens up on how she failed as a full-time Dominant, while Zorra discusses how her contract with Sir Dante differentiates between sassing and bratting.  Both Lady Dee and Zorra express a desire to do a high protocol dinner event with submissives serving, a Mistress coordinating and overseeing, with the Dominants being served.

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