The DOM Life Podcast

Wow!  Let’s just take a moment and enjoy the glow that Lady Dee is feeling. This is an episode involving impact and sensation play in our own private dungeon.  Master Nick and Sir Dante chained their submissives Lady Dee and Zorra side by side in order to educate the listeners on the use of various implements for both impact and sensation.  

Master Nick – Giving Lady Dee the ultimate pleasure for our listeners. 

Lady Dee – Thank you Sir Dante for allowing Master Nick to use your brand-new Fox Tail fluffinator on me.  That was my 2nd favorite part of the episode and a hefty purchase is in our future.  I refuse to discuss publicly the 1st favorite part.  

Master Nick – We have known Sir Dante & Zorra for a few years and it is very noticeable that we have different styles for impact play, but we have learned a variety of tricks from each other through our numerous interactions.  

Lady Dee – Play dates are fun, find some like-minded friends, and get naked. 

Master Nick – For educational purposes, laminate floors warp when wet – make sure to keep an emergency towel close at hand for those instances.  

Lady Dee – We truly love this podcast and appreciate our listeners.  That can be the only explanation for me to allow you all to hear my pleasure (said with a bright red face). 

 After a cliff hanger, leaving Zorra with an answer on the tip of her tongue waiting to respond, Lady Dee ends up taking the blame for getting Zorra a punishment (or two).  Sir Dante Marcellus and Zorra owners of Ex Libris Photography Studios join us to continue discussions on Domination and what their D/s relationship looks like.   

Master Nick –  Reliving the moments Zorra got punished because of Lady Dee, especially from the game but there was that one time in our personal dungeon…  

Lady Dee – Master Nick knowing I would say yellow-yellow-yellow-yellow-yellow-yellow-yellow in very quick succession. 

Master Nick – The vast difference between Master Nick/Lady Dee and Sir Dante/Zorra’s lifestyle.  You can develop your own dynamic to be more relaxed and laid back or as intense as you prefer. 

Lady Dee – D/s relationships are as intricate, varied, and different as relationships that do not include kink.  Some have contracts and some don’t, some have rules and tasks while others do not, basically there is no single mold to fit in within the lifestyle.  If you are curious about different D/s relationships stay tuned as we will continue to have couples and singles involved in the D/s lifestyle on our podcast. 

Master Nick – Pet play is a type of role playing that involves the partners taking the roles of pet and owner.  We’ve seen this at multiple events and in one instance an owner walked their pet around a very large room repeatedly with the pet on their knees being led with a leash, in full pet gear with a tail, paws, ears and mask on.  In this episode kitten play is discussed which is a subcategory of pet play involving a person acting as a kitten.   

Lady Dee – The reason I showed some concern as in telling everyone to SHUT UP during the episode is because this podcast has been an opportunity for our personal D/s development.  Speaking with others and communicating between ourselves, Master Nick and I have discussed renegotiating our contract. I just don’t want him to get too many crazy ideas from Sir Dante. 

The Dom Life has two very special guests joining us on the podcast, Sir Dante Marcellus and Zorra owners of Ex Libris Photography Studios.  This episode we do a deeper dive into domination, discussing BDSM with another Dominant and submissive couple who actively live the lifestyle.  Please be aware that this is a two-part episode since we ALL had all the words.  

Master Nick –  Being called beautiful – I mean sexy, handsome, wonderful, amazing and great by two lovely submissives. 

Lady Dee – Being able to engage in a deep, intense, fun and lively conversation with another couple on D/s relationships. 

Master Nick – That every D/s lifestyle relationship is unique to each and every individual with more examples to come.  

Lady Dee – That sometimes having a community and friends in the lifestyle is more important initially than finding “your” person(s).  As the community can help you to safely navigate the ups and downs in finding a person to meet your needs. 

Master Nick – We used the term unicorn multiple times as we begroaned our loss of our potential unicorn to another unnamed individual (who was on the podcast).  Unicorn is a third person typically single who joins an existing relationship with a couple typically for sex.  Unicorns are invited on dates and into the bedroom by the existing couple, but they aren’t considered a core component of the couple’s relationship. 

Lady Dee – I want to take back all questions about Sir Dante & Zorra’s contract, because black and white does NOT work for everyone.  Are you reading this Master Nick? 

This episode is highly subjective on what it means to me to be a submissive.  We discuss what it means to be a submissive and some ways to determine if you might be submissive.  There is an in-depth discussion on a submissive being in control and safe words.  

Master Nick – I was able to sit back and listen and not lead the discussion. 

Lady Dee – When Master discusses how he pulls out his “DOM” look when I argue with him on a task, punishment or request and it made me laugh uncontrolled.

Master Nick – There are many ways to determine whether you are submissive or not.  Here we give you a more in depth look into one submissive’s mind.   

Lady Dee – The submissive is in control both because they choose to submit and because there are safe word when things go too far. 

Master Nick – I’m taking back control of the Podcast, it was fun while it lasted! 

Lady Dee – When talking about submission or being a submissive I use my own perspective meaning I use her/she instead of being inclusive.  This is only because I am using my own experiences and not because men are not submissive as well. 

Dominant/submissive Lifestyle – Intro into Domination – We discuss how to dominate a submissive without using any tools, without using any impact play, and without any hitting.  This is a high-level discussion of domination by assigning tasks, use of collars, physical domination and mental domination.  This is the first of many episodes on the topic of dominating your submissive.   

Master Nick – Giving insight into being a Dom. 

Lady Dee – All punishments should be banned.  

Master Nick – Communicate your needs with each other, make it personal but also fun. 

Lady Dee – I hope that you explore the many ways to dominate your submissive inside and outside the bedroom. 

Master Nick – I plan to do a deeper dive with additional details pertaining to Domination. 

Lady Dee – We need to explain what a cage is as well as a chastity belt. 

Impact play (all good things) is our TRUTH.  This episode Lady Dee gets naked and we do a demonstration of a variety of implements used in impact play for our listeners.  Listeners can hear the various sounds of the items striking skin and Lady Dee’s responses to the impacts along with so much laughter.   

 Master Nick – Making Lady Dee laugh and giggle so much 

Lady Dee –Master’s sexy voice describing how he takes care of me so-freaking good with his after care.  

 Master Nick – The importance of after care and communicating the emotions of sub-drop. 

Lady Dee – When you see someone after a scene be aware that sub-drop may seriously impact how they interact or don’t interact with others. 

Master Nick - Describe what a scene is and what implements/tools are, which I will do in the next episode. 

Lady Dee – I would take-back some of my stuttering to line up my thoughts.  It was especially bad in this episode. 

This episode is all about sub-space, sub-drop and aftercare.  We dive deep into what sub-space is and why it is the goal.  Then we explain what sub-drop is and how it can impact your partner’s aftercare needs with a warning that sub-drop can happen immediately after, hours after and potentially days after a scene.  

 Master Nick – Making Lady Dee laugh and giggle so much 

Lady Dee –Master’s sexy voice describing how he takes care of me so-freaking good with his after care.  

 Master Nick – The importance of after care and communicating the emotions of sub-drop. 

Lady Dee – When you see someone after a scene be aware that sub-drop may seriously impact how they interact or don’t interact with others. 

Master Nick - Describe what a scene is and what implements/tools are, which I will do in the next episode. 

Lady Dee – I would take-back some of my stuttering to line up my thoughts.  It was especially bad in this episode. 

Episode 2 is an introduction to BDSM based upon an event hosted by The DOM life at Club Tempted, Louisville KY.  There is a discussion of needs, wants, and desires tied in with Master Nick’s addiction to the bakery aisle of the grocery store. BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadomasochism and it’s so much more than pain.    

Master Nick – Fantasizing about the bakery aisle 

Lady Dee – Master Nick confirming that me being verbal is good - very, very, very good. At least that’s what I heard.   

Master Nick – BDSM isn’t just about pain. There is so much more to indulge in. 

Lady Dee – BDSM is built on a foundation of trust and communication and eat them sum’bitches. 

Master Nick – Something I would like to take back – that I did not edit out the fact I said Lady Dee being verbal was good. 

Lady Dee – I lied – we totally buy donuts and other sweets from the bakery aisle from the grocery store via delivery.  

This is the first episode of a new podcast, The Dom Life, and an introduction to the hosts Master Nick and Lady Dee.  This episode discusses The Dom Life, BDSM, their separate kinky pasts, some of their experiences since meeting and a dive into their current Dominant/submissive relationship.  

Master Nick – Boogle BDSM, reminiscing about the night we met 

Lady Dee - Boogle BDSM 😀

 Master Nick – We are a down to earth couple in a dominant submissive relationship willing to share our experience in the lifestyle with everyone and we hope to learn about your kinks, too. 

Lady Dee – That we want to share our experience, learn about yours, and hope you enjoy our discussions along the way. 

 Master Nick - Sounding so negative about “Salt Life”.  I have no issues with Salt Life. 

Lady Dee - We did have really good friends before starting in the lifestyle, a couple who are like second parents to my son.  So, I take-back that we had no friends.